Self-Esteem and Sexual Experiences

Publication date

2026-02

Authors

Weber, Elisa
Hopwood, Christopher J
Denissen, JaapORCID 0000-0002-6282-4107ISNI 0000000389377076
Bleidorn, Wiebke

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Abstract

There is evidence that people with higher self-esteem tend to have more satisfying sexual relationships, but little is known about how changes in people's self-esteem and sexual experiences are related over time. Several theories predict reciprocal effects between self-esteem and sexual experiences. The present study tested these theories using 12-wave longitudinal data from more than 11,000 participants of a representative sample in Germany. Data were analyzed using Random Intercept Cross-lagged Panel Models. Results indicated significant between-person associations between stable levels of self-esteem and both the frequency and the quality of sexual experiences. Moreover, we found reciprocal within-person transactions between self-esteem and sexual satisfaction but not sexual frequency. Overall, the present pattern of results provides evidence for theories that consider self-esteem as both a source and consequence of intimate sexual relationships.

Keywords

longitudinal, random intercept cross-lagged panel model, reciprocal effects, self-esteem, sexual frequency and satisfaction, Social Psychology

Citation

Weber, E, Hopwood, C J, Denissen, J J A & Bleidorn, W 2026, 'Self-Esteem and Sexual Experiences', Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, vol. 52, no. 2, pp. 293-312. https://doi.org/10.1177/01461672241257355